Monday, 24 January 2022

They are still kids, and they don't just need to, but more often try to obtain boundaries.

Parents can now show children strong love without allowing them to run right over us. We should all remember the phrase, "Unwavering Love Will not really Say You Have had to Acknowledge Wrong Behavior patterns Selflessly."



In adolescent years, mercy has become an essential tool, but so does set boundaries. They are still kids, and they don't just need to, but more often try to obtain boundaries. It informs them what they would anticipate from you and how much you anticipate from them. They could be in a sour mood or be unhappy with us.



We must allow them to express all of their feelings. They do, however, require our guidance about how to correctly convey some of these feelings or what the regulations are considering their behavior and attitude.

Thursday, 20 January 2022

"We are a family, and we talk to each other using kind words."

Although TV, social media, and the many other influences our older children are exposed to may set a bad example, we must be the balancing voice that reinforces that speaking impolitely to others is unacceptable.



Respond to children who are unkind to you or to each other by saying, "We are a family, and we talk to each other using kind words." It's also perfectly acceptable for us to tell our tweens and teens when they've hurt our feelings.



When it comes to developing empathy, it is critical to challenge them to consider how their words and actions affect others. They should learn to grow up if they want to be treated that way. We demonstrate this by defining what is disrespectful and hurtful and consistently enforcing the consequences when they cross the line.  



A reward for a desired behavior can quickly backfire

External rewards should be avoided.



It can be very tempting to use rewards or perks to get our child to do something. Giving a child a reward for a desired behavior can quickly backfire because the child comes to expect the reward every time.



They may comply with your wishes, but they are also becoming extrinsically motivated.

Rewarding children for activities they want to do, such as coloring with markers, decreases the child's desire to do the activity in the future. This could be because offering rewards conveys the message that an activity is inherently unpleasant, or that the child should not even want to or to be forced to do it if there is something in it for them. 





Saturday, 15 January 2022

There is no unquestionably best method for teaching struggling readers.

Dyslexic children have a hereditary disability that can be treated–dyslexic children must be taught to read better, especially with regard to what is known as "phonemic awareness," or the sound each letter makes.

Allowing children to use assistive resources such as audiobooks and note takers, requiring specialized teacher training, and providing more accommodations on examinations are all brilliant points.

Dyslexic children, who make up about 5% to 15% of the population, have a neurological condition, a central nervous system idiosyncrasy that makes it difficult for them to associate letters and letter groups with sound waves.


"There is no unquestionably best method for teaching struggling readers." 


Their brain connections will not rewire it.

If your child expresses an interest in sports, video games, or photography, try to stimulate their interest by providing reinforcement.



They believe they aren't excellent at it if there isn't constant encouragement. This isn't a  sign.

As a result, piquing their curiosity will encourage them to take the next step. However, due to a shortage of time, children will have to give it up in order to focus on their studies. It's all right.



However, remind children to take part in their fun activities at least 2 times a week. As a result, they will be connected in some way. If they don't do it for an extended period of time, their brain connections will not rewire it. Rarely, there may be some interesting activities which are not recommended; yes, this really does happen.



Offer recommendations for how they might do such tasks in such a better, more compelling way without bothering themselves or others. You can control their work this way.


Shower them with affection to boost their self-esteem.

Building your child's self-esteem is a challenging task for anyone.


But, not for parents.


Unconditional love from parents has the potential to boost children's self-esteem. More love should be poured into their lives. It is unfair to expect the same from them since it is not always in their best interests.


As a result, you may vent out, resulting in some unexpected wild behaviors. It will undoubtedly disturb the peace in your family. In the coming days, only your love will be able to help them. So shower them with affection to boost their self-esteem.